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Friday, June 23, 2017

Another Take on The Emotional Guidance System

By Jerome Dechant
June 23, 2017

(Inspired by the teaching presented through Ester Hicks of Abraham.  I've previously written about the Emotional Guidance System and post said article here on this blog.)

What is the purpose of our emotions?  Why do we have emotions?  How do we use or abuse our emotional expressions?  Where do they come from?

Have you ever consider these questions or even sometimes wondered about emotions?  As humans, we all have emotions which range from deepest darkest despair to divine bliss.  There is a gradient scale between these two extreme expressions of emotions, and each of us is always expressing consciously or unconsciously, every moment of our lives somewhere upon the emotional scale.

Abraham, who speaks through Ester Hicks, has stated our emotions are indicators of how in alignment we are with our divine intentions, how in alignment we are with our true and eternal Self.  It is said, if we are perfectly attuned to our Divine and Eternal Self, our life expression is in the highest divine bliss state of being.  Conversely, the further out of alignment we are with our true and eternal Self, our life expression can be one of total despair, hopelessness, grief, etc..

You may or may not be aware, we, as eternal beings, have multiple bodies we express through which are interwoven with each other.  The one you are probably most familiar with is the dense organic human body.  There is also the mental body, the emotional body, the astral body and the higher spiritual body.  These bodies are all expressions of our energy being, which is linked to and originated from The Source Energy Being, which is the beginning and end of all that is manifest and unmanifest.  You may also be aware that energy cannot be destroyed, but only changes form.  (Since we are essentially and primarily Energy Beings, this explains how we are eternal beings.)

As energy beings, the closer in vibration we are to the source energy of our being, the better if feels emotionally, and the clearer we are mentally.  We also are more energetic and alive as we come closer in vibration to Source Energy.  I mentioned vibrations, which is inherent in energy beingness.  Vibration is energy in motion.  Energy in motion expresses motion, and polarity in the manifest world.  Someone has said emotion is another way of saying energy in motion.  Energy in motion can be perceived as light and sound.  Our human body has senses which are specially designed to be receivers for certain ranges of energy vibrations, our eyes are attuned to the visible spectrum of vibration which we perceive as the colors of the rainbow.  (Our eyes have a limited range of perceptive capability, so there are light vibrations beyond our perception via our physical eyes.)  Our ears similarly are designed to perceive a range of sound vibrations which, like the eyes ability to see light, is limited to a certain frequency range of sound.  Our other senses of touch, taste and smell also have their own range of vibrational sensitivity, which combined together allow us, as biological organisms, to perceive and interact with our environment and each other.

Consider musical notes are auditory vibrations of energy in expression.  When notes are in harmony with each other, they have a pleasant sound, when they are not in harmony with each other, the sounds is not pleasant.  So, one might say notes in harmony with each other feel better to us energetically than notes that are discordant, or out of harmony with each other.  These discordant notes can engender feelings of discomfort and uneasiness.  This example may give you an idea of how one can use emotions as a guidance system.  When we are in harmony with our divine essence in being, and our desire, actions, thoughts and deeds are also in harmony with our divine essence, it feel really good, but when we get out of tune with that divine essence vibration, it expresses through our emotional state as not feeling quite right, being uncomfortable in some way to some degree which is tied to how out of tune we are with our divine essence in being and our intentions.

The goal, as I see it, is to be moving towards the pure Source Energy Being vibration, which feel the best and is most life supporting.

As a guide to use while walking our path in life, it is very helpful to be aware of our emotional state, particularly when we begin to feel out of tune with our divine essence in being, when we begin to feel we are not vibrationally aligned with our intentions and desires.

As an example, let us say you want to express more fulfillment in your life; you want to be happy, healthy, abundantly supplied and have meaningful and loving relationships while walking your path in this human life expression.  If you speak it out loud as your heart felt intention and desire for this to be true, that is the first step.  The next step is to notice how it makes you feel when you contemplate the fulfillment of your desire.  We experience our emotional expressions in being in the here now moment by moment unfolding.  So, as we attune to our divine essence, and hold the intention of our desire as fulfilled in this here now moment by moment unfolding, we’ve planted the seed of its expression in our life. 

Then as we go on with our day to day activities, we can tell whether we are remaining in alignment with our intentions and desires by how we feel emotionally.  If we feel happy and excited with anticipation of receiving the fruits of our intention and desire, we are walking the path which will most directly take us to experiencing our intended desires.  But as we begin to feel uneasy, or angry, fearful or doubtful, these are indications we are veering off the path which leads to the fulfillment of our desires.  If we then harbor thoughts of unworthiness, and the like, these thoughts move us further away from the path we intended to experience, and move us onto the path we the lack of the fulfillment of our intentions and desires will be realized in our life experiencing.

So, the manifestation process has a formula which is like this:  Thoughts, words and deeds in harmony and alignment with a feeling of appreciation and gratitude that what we’ve asked for is on its way.  If any one of these things, our thoughts, or words, or deeds and or our emotions move out of harmony with our intention and desires, they must be brought back into harmony which furthers the manifestation of the intended desire(s).

Volumes can be written about the manifestation process, but becoming the master manifester of your own life experience is up to you, and how consciously you walk the path of your life.  Make the best use of the tools Source has given you, and you will realize the fulfillment of your desires. 

Notice:  It isn’t your responsibility to try to create or push your desires upon anyone else.  Each of us must make our own choices and take responsibility for our own life expressing and creating, thereby reaping the fruits of our own conscious or unconscious creations. 

You can choose to ignore what you’ve just read, or you can try it on for size, and see if it fits for you.  You will never know the value of what I’ve shared until you find out for yourself the truth of it via your own life experiencing.

Blessings to us all.

Tuesday, June 20, 2017


by Jerome Dechant
June 20, 2017

This manifestation is enabled by the existence of polarities, that is to say, the existence of polarities enables this relative manifestation.  Within this relative manifestation, there are no real absolutes, that is to say, for instance, there isn’t an absolute positive because if it was absolute, that would eliminate the negative, and without the negative, the possibility for a spectrum of expression in being is not possible.

You may have seen this symbol for Yin and Yang.  It reveals the necessity for each polarity’s interdependence upon the other.  The Yin contains some of the Yang, and the Yang contains some of the Yin.  These polarities are in constant motion, so the light side chases the dark side and the dark side chases the light side as the symbol spins around it’s center.  You will also notice they are balanced in that the light side is equal to the dark side.

What does that tell us?  It tells us, in the relative manifestation in being, there will always be good, (light or positive vibration,) and an equal and opposite bad, (dark or negative vibration.)  Which means, good can never be absolute, nor can bad be absolute because within each of them is a spark or vibration of the other.

That being said, there IS a spectrum of vibration from the nearly absolute positive (good) to the nearly absolute negative (bad) vibration.  One can decide where one wants to express within this spectrum of expression.  So if I lift my vibration so I am vibrating very high in the positive vibration, my experience will be substantially a positive vibration expression in being.  At this vibration, the equivalent negative vibration still exists, but because being higher in the spectrum of vibration, the equivalent negative vibration drops out of my experience, to the extent that I limit my scope of expression in being to be primarily within the vibrational state where the positive is the dominant expression.

As an example; a Divine Realized Master in being, can express throughout the entire spectrum in being, yet may choose to primarily express in the “Heavenly” state of expression.  While this being is manifest in this Heavenly state, It does not necessarily experience the “Hell” state of expression because on the vibrational spectrum of being, these two vibrations are very far apart.  So from within the experience of the Divine being’s expression it may appear, there is no hell to be seen, but that doesn’t mean hell has stopped existing.

The whole spectrum expresses constantly.  We get to choose where within this spectrum we express our being, or we don’t choose and may find our expression in being being thrust upon us by our lack of choice, so it may sometimes be enjoyable and sometimes not so enjoyable.  (The benefit to awakening to our ability to create our own reality experiencing is key and dependent upon our consciously choosing our own life expression, rather than letting life and circumstance choose it for us.)

So, as we walk through our life, how to we climb the spectrum towards a more divine expression in being?  It takes place in our here now, moment by moment expression in being.  Here, now is where we express and where our choosing or lack of choosing takes place.  Where ever we happen to be upon the vibrational spectrum of being, we can make a conscious choice to be happier than we were before, we can choose to be more loving than we were before, and in making these choices we can bring being happy into our here now moment by moment unfolding.  We can bring being more loving into our here, now moment by moment expression in being.  When we are ever present within our here, now moment by moment unfolding, we can consciously choose to perpetuate feeling good, or feeling happy, or feeling loving as each moment unfolds.  In this way, I can say Yes, I am happy, I want more of this, thereby I plant the seed for more of it to express in my life expression.

When you haven’t centered yourself with the here, now moment by moment unfolding, you may see things in your life you don’t want, and you may have experiences in your life which you do not like.  All of that has come into being because, you’ve let life and circumstance dictate your life expression rather than consciously choosing it.  To change this, meditation is important because it quiets the mind and body and more readily enables us to experience our here, now life expressing where the power to change our life experiences exists.  So, when confronted with stuff you don’t want, notice it and make a choice to have something you DO want.  Pay attention to what you DO want by embodying the feeling (vibration) of it to the best of your ability, and continue practicing it until your life expression fully is enfolded by the vibration of what you do want.  Each time you see/feeling/experience something you didn’t consciously choose, you can (in the here now moment by moment unfolding) decide to perpetuate it, or change it towards something you prefer more.  Then it is a “rinse and repeat” process.

I suggest meditation, focusing upon being here now, being fully present in this here now expression in being, giving thanks for this opportunity to regain control of your life expression in being.  Realize, as you regain your own authority and power to choose, it is essential you also allow others this freedom to regain their own authority and power to choose, which can not be forced upon them.  They must come to it through their own volition and choice to do so.

Your fulfillment isn’t dependent upon anyone other than your own self.  No one can bring fulfillment into your life expressing, but you.  Also, this means, you can’t give fulfillment to anyone else.  Yes, you can point them in the direction of it, but they each must walk the path which leads to their own fulfillment.  You can give them encouragement and support, and allow them the freedom to express their life at their own pace and according to their own desires.

Blessings to us all.

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Unity or Division?

All things in our life experiencing can be reduced down to two things, Unity and Division. Through our moment by moment life experiencing, everything we think, do and say is either contributing towards Unity, or Division.
Are you bringing people together, promoting getting along in harmony, or are you putting up barriers and wedges between peoples causing separations, distrust, anger, fear?
You can, of course, choose which you contribute to, but I strongly suggest putting your energy towards Unity more than Division.
Be mindful through out the day of what you say, think and do. Observe where you are on the scale between total unity and total division. You can adjust towards one or the other, but it takes presence and here now awareness to consciously do so.
It is your life, consciously live it and consciously create the future you want to step into.

Saturday, May 13, 2017

Create your own Sacred Space for Spiritual Practices

Setting up a "sacred space" for doing any of these higher vibration practices is worth doing before any channeling occurs. The environment is cleansed vibrationally so that lower vibration influences won't come in because it hurts them to do so. It is sort of like a fire to them, (figuratively) that the variation in vibration is such that unless they attune to the higher vibration, they can not enter the space. If they DO bring up their vibration, then the unwanted aspects of that being will be cleared away, so their beauty and magnificence in being comes forth. So, initially, such a being may approach with the intention to misinform, but after clearing their vibrational field, they become an aid rather than a hindrance to the whole process. This is why it is good to have a designated space where spiritual practices are practiced, such as meditation and this sort of thing. If one can not have a designated space, then cleanse the space these practices are to occur in via vibrational cleansing techniques. Also, adding love into the mix as an energy qualifier is key. (Logic is typically a male energy whereas Love is a female energy.) Marrying logic and love brings forth wisdom.

Saturday, April 8, 2017

Be a Sponge or be a Sun?

An empath is sort of like a sponge, which is porous and therefore absorbs easily the energies around him/her. Then of course, where ever you happen to be, you absorb what you are immersed in. Consider this; in order to absorb one has to have space where that which is absorbed can reside, which may have it's origin in one feeling incomplete, therefore drawing upon the surroundings for a sense of completion. (that's just one idea about it, not the definitive expression about it.) I found the Source within me is so energizing and complete, it enables me to radiate energy more than absorb energy. Yes, I can be sensitive to the energies around me, and at the same time I can be the channel or conduit to radiate Source energy similar to the radiance of the Sun. In this way, it is sort of like constantly gifting Divine Radiance to the environments and those within these environments for their betterment and fulfillment in being. I realize there isn't duality, that "they" are me, and I am them. This IS Oneness. In that I find myself exposed to various energies, these are opportunities, to transmute them into higher expressions in being. So, if I can recognize a hateful type of energy for instance, I'm the one recognizing it, therefore I can shift it (because it is just energy,) into a more harmonious state, which if it appears to be coming from someone else, they will find relief in the transmutation of the energy, therefore we will both be lifted into a more optimal state of energy being.

Your very own Reality Bubble?

What if you found out each of us have our very own reality bubble where we create whatever we want our reality to be. What if it looks like others can create in our reality bubble, but they can't unless we give them consent to do so, (actually, we still do the creating but we use their template in our reality.)
What does this mean? It means if someone else talks about stuff you don't want in your reality bubble, you don't have to allow it or create it in your very own bubble.
It is liberating to know you can have whatever you want without needing anyone else's permission to make it so. It is also liberating to know when someone wants war, hatred, etc., you can say, yeah, you can have that in your bubble, but I'm not going to create it in mine.
My bubble is full of love, harmony, peace, abundance, joy, caring and sharing and adventures in living life fully as a human being and beyond.
What do you want to create in YOUR bubble?
Make it so!

Thursday, March 23, 2017

Learn to do it yourself

I see it happen quite a bit, sometimes it is appropriate, but other times it is not. So, what am I referring to? Having someone do something for you so you don't have to do it.

For some things, which require a special skill you haven't developed yet, that needs to be done right away, yeah, it is good to have someone do that for you.

And there are other examples I'm sure you can think of where it is necessary and preferred to have someone do it for you, but there are things people may want others to do for them, that they should do themselves. In fact, there are things no one can do for you like live your life.

When it comes to self mastery, no one can do it for you. Yes, there are people who can teach you how to become masterful at expressing life, but in order to graduate into the Mastery of your life, you need to do it, no one can do it for you.

So, the next time you are considering having someone else "do it for you" pause a moment and consider whether this is something I need to do myself, even if it is something I really don't like to do. Sometimes, those things are important steps along the path of life which propel us forward in our self mastery, so to hand them off to someone else, is counter productive.

If we depend on others for our accomplishments, they aren't our accomplishments, they are someone else's accomplishments.

It is better to teach someone how to do something so they can do it themselves, than to just do it for them. Yeah, just doing it for them takes less time and may be easier, but then they are dependent upon you, so if/when you are no longer there, they are screwed.

Each of us has an innate skill and or ability which comes naturally to us. To be of service to others, we may teach others how to do that, if or when asked to do so.

We are more of service to others when we enable others to do it for themselves.

(I believe this is the approach the blue avians have taken. They provide guidance and encouragement, but they aren't going to do it for us.)