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Thursday, July 27, 2017

Appreciation - Critical Coin

by Jerome Dechant
July 25, 2017

Life is like a coin, it has two sides. You can see only one side at a time. On one side is love, appreciation, gratitude, on the other is hatred, criticism, fault finding.
If you find yourself on the critical side, if that doesn't feel good and life supporting to you, flip the coin over. Yes, you CAN flip the coin over, No, no one can do it for you, but someone like me can remind you that you can do it.
If you've built up a propensity towards being critical and/or angry often, it will take time to develop the new habit of being loving and appreciative, so be gentle with yourself, and gradually your propensity will be on the loving side of the coin.
Of course, if pain, suffering, anger and the like are what you desire, just ignore this, and continue sulking in your misery.
Blessings to us all.

Monday, July 24, 2017

Being Critical

By Jerome Dechant
July 24, 2017

You have probably heard it a million times, I’m referring to Oneness, i.e., all is one.  I bet for most people Oneness is just an intellectual concept, not a reality, here, now moment by moment experience.  Why is that?
How well do you embody Oneness, or do you embody it at all?  Do you really fully comprehend what the concept and reality of Oneness is?

Here are some thoughts to consider. 

Being critical.

There is so much diversity in manifestation, there is an abundance of opportunities to be critical.  You name it, there is something about it that a person can be critical about.  What does being critical mean?  It means whatever it is, isn’t in alignment with one’s beliefs about how it should be.  So, who is responsible for it not being the way one believes it should be?  Oh yeah, right someone else, someone else made it that way, and therefore they are to blame.  But, is that really factually true?

In Oneness, there is no “other” there is only the One.  Yes, there are unlimited expressions within IT, the One, but while there appears to be differences, those differences are only apparent.  Anything which manifests within your realm of experience has been brought forth into your awareness and experience by your drawing it into your realm of experience.  You may be doing this consciously, or unconsciously, but as you survey your life and experiencing here, now in this moment by moment unfolding, all that you are experiencing is a reflection of your own state in being.

When one is critical it may be of something or someone “out there” but whatever is “out there” first originated “in here”  within my own being.  What that means is, I am being critical of my own creation because no one but me can bring anything into my experience unless I agree to it, consciously or unconsciously.  Some even say, we agree to everything unless we specifically decide not to.  What that means, is the default operating system is set to accept everything.  After all, this is a “YES” universe which isn’t critical at all, it just manifests whatever we express via our state in being and desiring.

If you took complete control of your state in being, and consciously chose what your life experiencing is in this moment by moment unfolding, eventually you will find there is nothing to be critical about.  When you embody your divinity, the manifest expression in being is divine.

So, the next time you are critical of anything, consider the possibility that on some level, you made it that way, and if you made it that way, you can also make it another way, a way that is more pleasing to you.  This doesn’t mean you should demand the world around you change, but rather that the world within you change.

When your inner world is divine, your external world with outpicture as divine.
There is no one out there to change, there is no one out there to blame or be critical of, once you begin to embody your own innate creative abilities consciously and consistently in each moment as it unfolds.

As life presents things and experiences to you, if they are agreeable to you, express gratitude and appreciation for them, say, “Yes, more of this please.”  When approaching each moment by moment unfolding in this way, “Yes, thank you, I love this, more of this please.” The outpicturing will be in alignment with that.  This is how the manifestation principle works.  It is consistant and dependable.

If you want to evaluate how successful of a creator you are, consider this life experiencing right now.  Are you finding things to be critical of?  Are you unhappy, angry, worried, or afraid?  When you embody those experiences, the YES universe will give you more to be unhappy, angry, worried and/or be afraid of.  If you are being critical, the YES universe will give you more to be critical about.

No one lives your life for you.  No one is to blame for all the good or bad in your life.  Up until now, you may not have realized your part in the manifestation process of your life, but now you have at least a taste of understanding how to bring divinity back into your moment by moment life unfolding experiencing NOW.

Blessings to us all!

Monday, July 17, 2017

What is an appropriate point of focus?

by Jerome Dechant
July 17, 2017

I brought my soap box to preach off of, just a minute while I get onto it 

Have you noticed stuff like, when you own a certain type of vehicle, as you're driving down the road, you tend to notice more of those than other types? If you have a blue car, do you seem to notice more blue cars than other colored cars?

Why may that be so? Because that is where you've placed your attention. Whether one does it intentionally or not, is irrelevant, it still happens. So, this is why I suggest people focus upon what they want. If you are constantly focusing upon stuff to reveal and forgive, guess what, that is what you are going to see the most in your life experiencing. Consider, the mechanism of forgiveness. What is necessary to enable that mechanism to come forth? Judgement. Someone has done something you judged to be out of alignment with how you believe it should be. Therefore, once you reveal their deed(s), you are the one who must forgive them. Really though, who is in need of forgiveness? If one is centered withing a state of Harmony, Love, Compassion, Caring, etc. what does the world look like to that being? It is offering those vibrations, therefore the world reflects that back to him/her in the moment by moment life unfolding. That is to say, there is no forgiveness necessary because there were no judgements put out to the universe. The one who truly needs forgiveness is not the offender but the offended because he/she holds that within his/her own state of being which necessitated the judgement of something other than divine perfection. 

When one focuses upon being loving, caring and in harmony with the divine, they offer these vibrations to the universe which reflects like vibrations back to them. This is the true form of forgiveness, where there are no "troubled waters or disturbances" which need to be forgiven. All those judgements fade away by the very nature of one raising one's vibrations into higher forms of expression where divinity expresses in the moment by moment unfolding.

There are facts and there are fictions. The facts are most readily and accurately linked to truth, and facts can be verified via personal experience. I suggest determining for one's self whether focusing upon divine attributes brings forth divine life experiences or not. You already know what your current focus has been, and what it has brought to you, so you should consider that factual as you've experienced it already. Are you ready to experience your divinity?

When one is a child, one thinks and acts like a child, when one grows out of childhood, one must leave childish things behind. We have all been children who've held on to our childish ways way beyond our childhood, let us shed those ways of being, and grow into our divine expressions in being.

What is an appropriate point of focus to bring forth our divine expression in being? That is the best point of attention to place your focus.

Friday, July 7, 2017

It is YOUR Life...

by Jerome Dechant
July 2017

We each have our own reality bubble, which we can and do share with others when we buy into what they believe and say. We each have to option to believe, or disbelieve anything and or everything anyone else says because we ultimately are the creator of our own life experience, and therefore it us up to each of us to assume full responsibility for what we allow in our very own reality bubble.

I do not dictate what someone else's reality bubble contains, ultimately, each of us does that because it is our own reality bubble. Abraham-Hicks often speaks about us creating our own reality via the vibration we offer to the universe. No one vibrates for us, it is what we do ourselves which draws to us the live experiences, people, places and things our life is expressed in. If someone else is manipulating our vibration, it is only possible by us allowing it to be so. Part of the awakening process, is to realize our own sovereignty, and taking back the control and authority of our own life experiencing. This means, what someone else says or does is less important than what we say and do because thereby we create our own life experiencing.

Radiating love ceaselessly, like the sun radiates it's light upon us all, is a way to manifest a divine expression in being. When we identify as that Source, are attuned to IT, love is our ceaseless expression in being. IT can be found in those still, quiet moments when in meditation, we listen to find and hear the "still small voice within."

It is your life. make it what you want it to be.

Blessings to us all!

Friday, June 23, 2017

Another Take on The Emotional Guidance System

By Jerome Dechant
June 23, 2017

(Inspired by the teaching presented through Ester Hicks of Abraham.  I've previously written about the Emotional Guidance System and post said article here on this blog.)

What is the purpose of our emotions?  Why do we have emotions?  How do we use or abuse our emotional expressions?  Where do they come from?

Have you ever consider these questions or even sometimes wondered about emotions?  As humans, we all have emotions which range from deepest darkest despair to divine bliss.  There is a gradient scale between these two extreme expressions of emotions, and each of us is always expressing consciously or unconsciously, every moment of our lives somewhere upon the emotional scale.

Abraham, who speaks through Ester Hicks, has stated our emotions are indicators of how in alignment we are with our divine intentions, how in alignment we are with our true and eternal Self.  It is said, if we are perfectly attuned to our Divine and Eternal Self, our life expression is in the highest divine bliss state of being.  Conversely, the further out of alignment we are with our true and eternal Self, our life expression can be one of total despair, hopelessness, grief, etc..

You may or may not be aware, we, as eternal beings, have multiple bodies we express through which are interwoven with each other.  The one you are probably most familiar with is the dense organic human body.  There is also the mental body, the emotional body, the astral body and the higher spiritual body.  These bodies are all expressions of our energy being, which is linked to and originated from The Source Energy Being, which is the beginning and end of all that is manifest and unmanifest.  You may also be aware that energy cannot be destroyed, but only changes form.  (Since we are essentially and primarily Energy Beings, this explains how we are eternal beings.)

As energy beings, the closer in vibration we are to the source energy of our being, the better if feels emotionally, and the clearer we are mentally.  We also are more energetic and alive as we come closer in vibration to Source Energy.  I mentioned vibrations, which is inherent in energy beingness.  Vibration is energy in motion.  Energy in motion expresses motion, and polarity in the manifest world.  Someone has said emotion is another way of saying energy in motion.  Energy in motion can be perceived as light and sound.  Our human body has senses which are specially designed to be receivers for certain ranges of energy vibrations, our eyes are attuned to the visible spectrum of vibration which we perceive as the colors of the rainbow.  (Our eyes have a limited range of perceptive capability, so there are light vibrations beyond our perception via our physical eyes.)  Our ears similarly are designed to perceive a range of sound vibrations which, like the eyes ability to see light, is limited to a certain frequency range of sound.  Our other senses of touch, taste and smell also have their own range of vibrational sensitivity, which combined together allow us, as biological organisms, to perceive and interact with our environment and each other.

Consider musical notes are auditory vibrations of energy in expression.  When notes are in harmony with each other, they have a pleasant sound, when they are not in harmony with each other, the sounds is not pleasant.  So, one might say notes in harmony with each other feel better to us energetically than notes that are discordant, or out of harmony with each other.  These discordant notes can engender feelings of discomfort and uneasiness.  This example may give you an idea of how one can use emotions as a guidance system.  When we are in harmony with our divine essence in being, and our desire, actions, thoughts and deeds are also in harmony with our divine essence, it feel really good, but when we get out of tune with that divine essence vibration, it expresses through our emotional state as not feeling quite right, being uncomfortable in some way to some degree which is tied to how out of tune we are with our divine essence in being and our intentions.

The goal, as I see it, is to be moving towards the pure Source Energy Being vibration, which feel the best and is most life supporting.

As a guide to use while walking our path in life, it is very helpful to be aware of our emotional state, particularly when we begin to feel out of tune with our divine essence in being, when we begin to feel we are not vibrationally aligned with our intentions and desires.

As an example, let us say you want to express more fulfillment in your life; you want to be happy, healthy, abundantly supplied and have meaningful and loving relationships while walking your path in this human life expression.  If you speak it out loud as your heart felt intention and desire for this to be true, that is the first step.  The next step is to notice how it makes you feel when you contemplate the fulfillment of your desire.  We experience our emotional expressions in being in the here now moment by moment unfolding.  So, as we attune to our divine essence, and hold the intention of our desire as fulfilled in this here now moment by moment unfolding, we’ve planted the seed of its expression in our life. 

Then as we go on with our day to day activities, we can tell whether we are remaining in alignment with our intentions and desires by how we feel emotionally.  If we feel happy and excited with anticipation of receiving the fruits of our intention and desire, we are walking the path which will most directly take us to experiencing our intended desires.  But as we begin to feel uneasy, or angry, fearful or doubtful, these are indications we are veering off the path which leads to the fulfillment of our desires.  If we then harbor thoughts of unworthiness, and the like, these thoughts move us further away from the path we intended to experience, and move us onto the path we the lack of the fulfillment of our intentions and desires will be realized in our life experiencing.

So, the manifestation process has a formula which is like this:  Thoughts, words and deeds in harmony and alignment with a feeling of appreciation and gratitude that what we’ve asked for is on its way.  If any one of these things, our thoughts, or words, or deeds and or our emotions move out of harmony with our intention and desires, they must be brought back into harmony which furthers the manifestation of the intended desire(s).

Volumes can be written about the manifestation process, but becoming the master manifester of your own life experience is up to you, and how consciously you walk the path of your life.  Make the best use of the tools Source has given you, and you will realize the fulfillment of your desires. 

Notice:  It isn’t your responsibility to try to create or push your desires upon anyone else.  Each of us must make our own choices and take responsibility for our own life expressing and creating, thereby reaping the fruits of our own conscious or unconscious creations. 

You can choose to ignore what you’ve just read, or you can try it on for size, and see if it fits for you.  You will never know the value of what I’ve shared until you find out for yourself the truth of it via your own life experiencing.

Blessings to us all.

Tuesday, June 20, 2017


by Jerome Dechant
June 20, 2017

This manifestation is enabled by the existence of polarities, that is to say, the existence of polarities enables this relative manifestation.  Within this relative manifestation, there are no real absolutes, that is to say, for instance, there isn’t an absolute positive because if it was absolute, that would eliminate the negative, and without the negative, the possibility for a spectrum of expression in being is not possible.

You may have seen this symbol for Yin and Yang.  It reveals the necessity for each polarity’s interdependence upon the other.  The Yin contains some of the Yang, and the Yang contains some of the Yin.  These polarities are in constant motion, so the light side chases the dark side and the dark side chases the light side as the symbol spins around it’s center.  You will also notice they are balanced in that the light side is equal to the dark side.

What does that tell us?  It tells us, in the relative manifestation in being, there will always be good, (light or positive vibration,) and an equal and opposite bad, (dark or negative vibration.)  Which means, good can never be absolute, nor can bad be absolute because within each of them is a spark or vibration of the other.

That being said, there IS a spectrum of vibration from the nearly absolute positive (good) to the nearly absolute negative (bad) vibration.  One can decide where one wants to express within this spectrum of expression.  So if I lift my vibration so I am vibrating very high in the positive vibration, my experience will be substantially a positive vibration expression in being.  At this vibration, the equivalent negative vibration still exists, but because being higher in the spectrum of vibration, the equivalent negative vibration drops out of my experience, to the extent that I limit my scope of expression in being to be primarily within the vibrational state where the positive is the dominant expression.

As an example; a Divine Realized Master in being, can express throughout the entire spectrum in being, yet may choose to primarily express in the “Heavenly” state of expression.  While this being is manifest in this Heavenly state, It does not necessarily experience the “Hell” state of expression because on the vibrational spectrum of being, these two vibrations are very far apart.  So from within the experience of the Divine being’s expression it may appear, there is no hell to be seen, but that doesn’t mean hell has stopped existing.

The whole spectrum expresses constantly.  We get to choose where within this spectrum we express our being, or we don’t choose and may find our expression in being being thrust upon us by our lack of choice, so it may sometimes be enjoyable and sometimes not so enjoyable.  (The benefit to awakening to our ability to create our own reality experiencing is key and dependent upon our consciously choosing our own life expression, rather than letting life and circumstance choose it for us.)

So, as we walk through our life, how to we climb the spectrum towards a more divine expression in being?  It takes place in our here now, moment by moment expression in being.  Here, now is where we express and where our choosing or lack of choosing takes place.  Where ever we happen to be upon the vibrational spectrum of being, we can make a conscious choice to be happier than we were before, we can choose to be more loving than we were before, and in making these choices we can bring being happy into our here now moment by moment unfolding.  We can bring being more loving into our here, now moment by moment expression in being.  When we are ever present within our here, now moment by moment unfolding, we can consciously choose to perpetuate feeling good, or feeling happy, or feeling loving as each moment unfolds.  In this way, I can say Yes, I am happy, I want more of this, thereby I plant the seed for more of it to express in my life expression.

When you haven’t centered yourself with the here, now moment by moment unfolding, you may see things in your life you don’t want, and you may have experiences in your life which you do not like.  All of that has come into being because, you’ve let life and circumstance dictate your life expression rather than consciously choosing it.  To change this, meditation is important because it quiets the mind and body and more readily enables us to experience our here, now life expressing where the power to change our life experiences exists.  So, when confronted with stuff you don’t want, notice it and make a choice to have something you DO want.  Pay attention to what you DO want by embodying the feeling (vibration) of it to the best of your ability, and continue practicing it until your life expression fully is enfolded by the vibration of what you do want.  Each time you see/feeling/experience something you didn’t consciously choose, you can (in the here now moment by moment unfolding) decide to perpetuate it, or change it towards something you prefer more.  Then it is a “rinse and repeat” process.

I suggest meditation, focusing upon being here now, being fully present in this here now expression in being, giving thanks for this opportunity to regain control of your life expression in being.  Realize, as you regain your own authority and power to choose, it is essential you also allow others this freedom to regain their own authority and power to choose, which can not be forced upon them.  They must come to it through their own volition and choice to do so.

Your fulfillment isn’t dependent upon anyone other than your own self.  No one can bring fulfillment into your life expressing, but you.  Also, this means, you can’t give fulfillment to anyone else.  Yes, you can point them in the direction of it, but they each must walk the path which leads to their own fulfillment.  You can give them encouragement and support, and allow them the freedom to express their life at their own pace and according to their own desires.

Blessings to us all.

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

Unity or Division?

All things in our life experiencing can be reduced down to two things, Unity and Division. Through our moment by moment life experiencing, everything we think, do and say is either contributing towards Unity, or Division.
Are you bringing people together, promoting getting along in harmony, or are you putting up barriers and wedges between peoples causing separations, distrust, anger, fear?
You can, of course, choose which you contribute to, but I strongly suggest putting your energy towards Unity more than Division.
Be mindful through out the day of what you say, think and do. Observe where you are on the scale between total unity and total division. You can adjust towards one or the other, but it takes presence and here now awareness to consciously do so.
It is your life, consciously live it and consciously create the future you want to step into.