Love vs. Lust

When one is a teen, full of hormones raging, etc., it is hard to tell the difference between love and lust. Love has to do more with character than lust which has to do with appearance. Love may develop over time as we uncover a person's character traits which we identify with and are in harmony with. Lust is typically an instant urge or feeling based upon what one perceives as attractive or appealing in a sensual way. The thing about beauty is it opens the door to developing a loving relationship. If one is not attractive, they may have a hard time attracting a companion or mate, but if they have a strong loving character, that will shine through and those with eyes to see, will recognize it. This is where being older with less raging hormones influencing one's choices and actions may come into play. If a relationship is based upon lust, I guarantee you it won't last for years. If a relationship is based upon love and caring, that can last a lifetime.