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My Dad use to say, "nothing is free, there is always a price to be paid for everything." What he meant was, the price isn't always money, it is often expectation especially with things given to us for "free". So, I suggest, when someone wants to give you something for "free" ask them what their expectations are, what obligations come along with what is given? Then base your decision upon whether you are willing to pay that price. With regard to holding onto memorabilia, The stuff acts as a reminder, so how many reminders do you need? In the old days, what was treasured the most, was the human interactions, the story telling about life adventures, etc., these were the things that were handed down from generation to generation. There are no objects which hold the value of the act of holding your daughter, or son in your arms, in a loving embrace. Cherish this sort of thing. I think you will find more joy and fulfillment in expressing your love and caring for others, by being the kind and loving person people will remember and think fondly of, once you are gone. Consider what is REALLY valuable in your life. Is it the stuff you accumulate, or is it something else? When someone is offended because you no longer have space or need for something they gave you, and you give it away, or get rid of it somehow, their being offended is their problem. Don't make it yours. We let others off the hook when we don't saddle them with our unwarranted expectations. :)