It is a matter of identity.

Do you identify yourself as a separate being or do you identify yourself as being one with all that is? When you comprehend our oneness, it is obvious that how we treat others is how we are treating our greater Self. To be of service to others, is to realize there is no "other." and in this realization, we express our divinity, our divine love, compassion, and caring and radiate it from the center of our being, Source flows through our thoughts, words and deeds. So, are you being helpful, promoting and expressing well-being? Light the spark of love light within your being, fan it with every thought, words and deed, then radiate this as the Sun radiates to all unconditionally. When we find fault with others, it is seeing the fault within our own perceptions, it is expressing the smudge on the lense of our perception which does not allow us to perceive truly and clearly. When we want to change others, remember there are no "others." Changing our own expression in being automatically changes how we perceive "others." The ascension process is sort of like taking a gentle shower, washing off the misconceptions, the distortions, fears, guilt, etc. which once washed down the drain, leaves only our pure, beautiful, magnificence as Source created us. In the moments after such a shower, we can truly say with awareness, "I and my Father are ONE." Be the light, be the love, be the ascension you want to see in the world, and it will be so. Blessings to us all.